HGTV's Decorating With Style
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Segment #375
Tips On Shopping For Old Things
By Maude Gold Kiser
I appeared on HGTV's Decorating With Style several times back in the 1990s, and this is the written version of the segment I did on shopping for old things. Click here to see what I'm working on now.
Whether at flea markets, antiques stores, junk stores, garage sales, thrift shops, or auctions, I'd rather go junking than just about anything else in life. It's my vocation, avocation, and therapy Over the years I've discovered a variety of useful tools that make my junkets more productive and keep these things in my car at all times. After all, you never know when an opportunity to shop might arise.
I keep all these tools (at least those that will fit) in a little 1940s overnight bag, but there are any number of other possibilities. The main thing is to keep them all together where you can easily lay your hands on what you need, without having to search all over your vehicle for it. If you're going to a flea market, transfer the notebook, magnet, measuring tape, knife, and other applicable essentials to a big cloth shopping bag (with a shoulder strap) or back pack large enough to also hold some of your finds (and keep another bag folded up inside your main bag as a spare).
What your kit should include:
Notebook Get
a little spiral-bound notebook and fill it with measurements
and sizes.
I’ve asked professional estate-sale handlers what question they get
asked most often by shoppers, and it tickles the heck out of me how many of
them have said that they’re regularly asked whether or not a piece of
furniture will fit a particular spot in a customer's home. Silly as this may
seem, they swear it’s true. The obvious solution to this common problem is
to have all your measurements with you (of particular importance at sales
and auctions, where if you don’t buy the thing now, it’s gone), not just for those
places that you’re actively seeking a piece for, but full-room dimensions
and any spaces in your house where you might conceivably want to put
something, as well as door and window openings, and anyplace else you can
think of. Yes, it may take you a few hours to do all this measuring, but
it’s worth it (especially when it saves you extra trips home or costly mistakes as
a result of miscalculations). This is a good project to get kids to help you
with, or, even better, to do it for you (as long as they’re old enough to
understand the concept of accuracy).
Also handy to have in your notebook are the clothing and shoe sizes
of your family (I could never remember my husband’s sizes until I started
doing this) and anyone else you think you might run into an item of clothing
for (e.g. extended family, friends, neighbors, co-workers). For men, include
neck, waist, shoulder-to-shoulder (measure a jacket across the back from the
top of one sleeve seam to the top of the other), and chest measurements,
along with inseam and sleeve lengths, as men’s clothes often don’t have
sizes in them (although sometimes you’ll find sizes hidden inside pockets
or flies, so be sure to check there just in case; fabric content and care instructions
are also sometimes hidden there, too). Depending on the number of people you
might want to include on this list, a couple of hours on the telephone will
get you all the information.
I highly recommend adding this idea to your list of things to do right now (or, at least, put a note about it
on your refrigerator right now), and do it as soon as possible. The longer
you wait, the less likely it becomes that you’ll ever get around to it.
Then the next time you have to walk away from a good deal, or buy something
that fits nowhere or no one, you’ll kick yourself.
Magnet A
magnet won’t stick to gold, silver, copper, brass, pewter, or aluminum.
It will, however, stick to thin plating over some kind of ferrous
(iron-containing) metal.
Magnifying glass I
like the kind that has a built in light, but any kind will do. Use it
for reading tiny print on jewelry, silver, etc., as well as for examining
surfaces, for example, to see if a decoration is painted on or is a decal
(which are made up of a series of tiny dots).
Metal Polish I
keep a little tube of metal polish and an old sock with me, but a
polishing cloth (found at most jewelry stores) is a good alternative.
Keep either of these in a zip-lock baggie. Use this for revealing what might lie
beneath tarnished surfaces (polish up only a tiny spot, lest you inadvertently
drive up the price) and for making markings more legible.
Small flashlight
I like those little Mag-lite type flashlights; they give off a lot of
light and take up little space in my kit. This is a must-have for
illuminating dark nooks and crannies in junk and antiques stores, as well as
in attics, basements, garages, and barns (my favorite places to dig for
buried treasures). It’s also useful for examining inside and underneath
furniture.
Tape measure
I have both a metal, retractable type (best for measuring anything big)
and a cloth-tape type (best for measuring clothing or anything rounded).
Pocket knife
Make sure it’s sharp. Use this to reveal what lies beneath paint. Always
pick an inconspicuous spot, and scrape away only a smidgen of paint. Always
ask permission before attempting this.
Screwdriver
You should have both a regular and a Phillips head screwdriver. You never
know what might need to be taken apart. Actually, a Swiss Army knife (the
Super Tinker is an excellent choice) has both of these screwdrivers, a knife,
and tweezers (about to be mentioned) included in the same tool.
Handy Wipes
For obvious reasons, carry either the small pre-packaged kind or a box
of baby wipes. To me, any shopping experience I have to wash my hands after
is usually a good one. I’ve found some of my best stuff in the dirtiest
places.
First-aid kit
You never know what you’ll run into out there, so it’s good to be prepared.
I keep Band-Aids, antiseptic/anti-itch ointment/spray (like Bactine or Lanacane),
tweezers, hydrogen peroxide (or alcohol if you’re braver than I am),
ibuprofen/aspirin, and anything else you can think of. Get the travel-sized
containers to save space.
Bug spray, suntan lotion, and a hat You can get a mighty good sunburn and zillions of bug bites during a day at a flea market, garage sales, or outside auctions.
Snacks I don’t
like having to stop someplace to eat when I’m out shopping. I always feel as
though while I’m sitting there eating, someone is buying up what could have
been mine. Not only that, but if you’re going to a flea market or auction the
food can be a bit pricey, and, personally, I’d rather spend two bucks on a
thing, than on a hot dog. Keep trail mix, candy/energy bars, peanut
butter or cheese crackers, and/or beef sticks, etc. in your kit at all times. Keep some bottled water in the car, too (I think it tastes
better at room/car temperature than other possibilities). In addition,
if you’re going on an all day shopping trip, bring along a cooler with a
picnic lunch you can eat on the road. Don’t forget to pack drinks, too.
Gloves These
are useful when carrying heavy, sharp, rusty, or grimy pieces, as
well as for digging around anyplace where it’s dark, dirty, buggy, or all
of the above. Wearing gloves I’ve dug through places that I never would have
considered bare handed.
Map Book I
like city map books much better than regular maps when I’m going garage
sailing. They’re much easier to handle and read, and can make all the difference
in being able to find a sale, especially in a part of town you’re not
familiar with. I wore out one a year until I decided to put a plastic cover
on the thing. Punching holes in it and putting it in a binder is also a good
way to keep your book intact. You can usually find these at gas station/quick
marts, grocery, drug, or bookstores, and anyplace else where there’s a
magazine rack.
Binoculars I
have a pair of opera glasses, but any kind will do. I keep them within
reach when I’m driving around looking for garage sales and use them to read
those hard-to-read signs. It also allows you to read a sign that’s on the
other side of an intersection, while you’re waiting at a red light.
Piece of red fabric
I keep a red bandanna in my kit. This is necessary for hanging on anything
that’s extending from your vehicle.
Rope and/or bungee cords
You’ll need these for tying your trunk or tailgate closed or, possibly,
to tie something to your roof.
Padding I
keep a movers blanket in the back of my truck, but any kind of old
quilt, mattress pad, blanket, etc., will do. Having some towels and/or
bubble wrap with you is also a good idea (use them to wrap up larger
breakable or easily scratchable items like lamps, big vases, mirrors, etc.).
Spare keys You
pull up to a sale, and, in your excitement to get at the goods, you
lock your keys in the car. Now, not only do you lose precious shopping
time, but, if you have to call a lock smith, money you otherwise could have
spent on stuff. Don’t forget to keep these spare keys in your pocket
or purse!
Fix-a-flat It’s
a good idea to carry this temporary, flat-tire fixer (found in
auto supply stores and departments) with you wherever you go. You squirt it
in your tire when it’s either starting to go flat or already has, and it
will usually get you to a gas station (or, depending on how far it is, home,
where you can change the tire after unloading your car. You haven’t lived until
you’ve had to empty out a full day's shopping on the side of a road and then
reload it all again).
Plastic tarp, tablecloth, or shower curtain
This is for covering up something tied to your roof or sticking out the
back of your vehicle.
Umbrella, rain slicker, and/or hat, and rubber boots
The umbrella and/or rain slicker are a must when you want to keep shopping
on those days that turn rainy halfway through. A waterproof collapsable hat is also a good idea. The boots are because you never know where you’re gonna run into mud (or other less-than-desirable substances such as those you might find in an old barn).
Hat, sunglasses, and/or umbrella In this case, to protect you from the sun. A hat also comes in handy to protect you from gross things hanging over your head.
Big shirt and old shoes
These are for when those chance opportunities to shop arise and you’re
caught wearing white (and the place is less than tidy), or you have on hose
and heels (and where you need to go requires something more substantial).
Batteries, light bulb,
blank cassette tape, cd, and/or dvd These are optional, but sure can be
useful, especially at flea markets and garage sales where you might run into
something that needs one of these items in order to test it to see if
it works. I’ve also brought along bread when shopping for a toaster or
toaster oven, and a record when shopping for a record player.
Polaroid camera
This is real handy if you’re shopping for furniture at antiques or junk
stores. You can take pictures of the pieces you like along the way. Write
the price, name of the shop, and phone number on the picture (and/or paper
clip the shops business card to it).
Empty boxes and plastic bags
I regularly run into a need for these both at sales where spare boxes can be scarce or, more likely, non-existent. I usually bring along at least a couple of them. Plastic bags are another good idea.
The rest of these things aren’t part of the kit, but are just as important to remember.
Empty out your vehicle
Before leaving home, make sure to remove any and all superfluous objects
from your car/van/truck, lest they take up valuable space that might
otherwise be filled with treasure.
Cash
Cash sometimes talks when cutting deals. And sometimes cash is all they’ll
take. Make sure you have plenty of small bills, as change for larger bills
can sometimes be at a premium. By the way, unusual money (two dollar bills, fifty cent
pieces, Susan B. Anthony and silver dollars, all readily available at most
banks) can sometimes have the most amazing affect on prices if you hold it
where they can see it when asking if they’d take that amount. In complete
contradiction to this: I write checks at garage sales all the time. I’ve
written them for as little as a couple of bucks. It helps me keep track of
what I’m spending and gives me a receipt. Even if I have money in my pocket,
I’ll still ask if they’ll take a check, and, more often than not, they will.
Shopping partners who like to shop
If, at all possible, when you’re out to do some serious or even casual
treasure hunting, go with someone who really enjoys it, or go alone. Those
who are uninitiated and/or unenthusiastic tend to be ready to leave a sale
or go home long before you are. Never talk a spouse into coming along for
the same reason, but, if it’s unavoidable, suggest that he or she bring along
something to read or some tapes to listen to.
A friendly attitude
The most common complaint I hear from dealers is that they’re constantly
confronted with people who, though they would never consider getting huffy
over prices in a department store or restaurant, get downright testy when
shopping for antiques and other second-hand goods. Some people even seem to
think that it’s a necessary part of the game. This phenomenon is perhaps the
primary provocation for grumpy dealers. (How’d you like to spend day after
day dealing with customers who get sulky and even downright rude over your
prices?
Can you imagine what they’d say if you told a clerk in a department
store that you saw a blouse just like this elsewhere for a lot less, or told
a waitperson in a restaurant that you’ll offer $5.00 for a steak priced
at $15.00?) While it’s a perfectly acceptable aspect of this kind of shopping
to ask if a dealer or yard sale holder would be willing to take less for an
item (unless you know it to be priced fairly, in which case asking
if they’d take less may work against you in other negotiations), it’s been
my experience that the best results can be achieved by being friendly, fair,
and reasonable when haggling over prices (one catches more flies with honey. . .).
It’s also a good idea to chat a bit with the person before getting down to
wheeling and dealing. It warms things up a bit, gives them the opportunity
to like you, and often can increase your chances of getting the best possible
deal. If they won’t come down to a price you’re willing to pay, consider
leaving your telephone number and asking them to call you if they should
change their mind (often the case if the thing is still there at the end of
a sale or if a dealer still has the piece a few months later).
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